Potty training: One down, one to go

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The thing with being a mom is that I’m my sons’ first teacher. Before I had kids, I wasn’t really into teaching people new things or expressing different ideas, cause, you know why should I?

Now with kids, I’ve learnt that if I want them to learn something new or teach them something new, I have to be constant in my approach. This was a pretty tiring and unwanted exercise. I for one dreaded having to teach my eldest how to potty. I just wasn’t looking forward to cleaning up his pee or wiping his poo off the floor, eeuw. At some point I wanted him to always stay in nappies, but the fact that I wasn’t going to buy him nappies anymore also was a bit of motivation.

My son had just turned two and I knew my time was fast approaching and there was no escape. As much as I dreaded the thought, two weeks after his birthday…
IT WAS TIME…

Take frustration, mix it with sleeplessness, add a bit of “upset-ness”, then being on guard every 15 minutes and finish it off with a toddler who loves running around, eating and drinking, and also wants you to listen to his every beck and call. Yep, you get the gist of the kind of strength required for a potty training exercise.

The first few days were incredibly frustration and were filled with questions like “Why don’t you say when you want to pee?”, “Why did you pee on yourself?”, “Do you want to pee?”, etc. The response for each of my questions was always a “Huh?”

Despite being frustrated about the whole process, I realised I had to be patient with him. There were moments when he did get it right and I tell you, it was the most exciting and joyful moment ever. We even had a song and dance to celebrate.

I thought that it would take a long time for him to get the concept but two weeks of constant chasing and encouragement got the job done.

(I understand there’s a 3-day thing that others have tried, but that only works for stay at home moms – I think)

We still have accidents every now and then but he’s made a lot of progress from when we first started. Going through all the frustration and being on guard every few minutes has paid off. I’m not such a bad teacher after all.


I can proudly say that I taught my son how to potty!

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